The reason I want you to check the start relay in the service position is you by-pass all the electronics and safety switches. All you have is the key switch, service run switch, start relay and finally the starter relay itself.
In the run position the warning lights should light up when you sit in the seat. They will remain lit for a couple of seconds and then they will go out except for the park brake and seat belt light. Fastening the seat belt will put out the lights. The lights should not even be on when you turn the key to the start position. The only exception are one of the four lights across the top and the digital display. I think they will go out when the key is turned to the start position.
If the lights only come on when you turn the key to the on position then the service run switch is in the service position.
My guesst is the start relay or the starter itself.