Exactly, swap the hoses at the ram, toe should go forward, heal should tilt back wards. Same for the lift, heal is lift toe lets the arms fall.
I would suspect your seals in the ram may be shot, this would cause your bucket to drop. There are load checks that could cause this as well, but usually its only a slow leak. I'm just wondering if the load check poppets could be stuck, i guess it could cause some of the issues you are having..... If you look at your control block, you will notice a bank of 4 spools each spool has 2 lines running out of it and 2 load checks, one for each tube line. They will behind what looks like a bolt next to where the tube line connects in, about 1" hex head. These will have a poppet, spring and a set if seals. Each segment of the spool is separate, they are all linked with the main supply of oil but operate independent. If you find the tilt section you know what 2 load checks you may want to look at.
Remember to keep things clean, dirt in your hydraulic system is a bad thing.
I hope that gives you an idea of where to look.....