There are three ports on the control valve other then the bucket and boom ports. One is the "in" port, one is the "out" port and one is the "power beyond port". The purpose of the power beyond port is to supply pressureized oil to the aux valve. The way it works is like this, oil is supplyied to the control valve through the in port. From there it will go to the boom or bucket ports if the pedals are pushed. If no pedal is pushed the oil then flows through the power beyond port tot he aux valve........If a pedal is pushed then oil will be supplied to one of the ports of a cylinder. Since there is oil on both sides of the cylinder oil must be exhausted from the opposite port of the cylinder. This exhasuted oil returns to the oil cooler and filters and eventually to sump.....To determine which of the two out ports is the power beyond, if not cast into the valve housing, remove the fitting from the valve. Under the treads of the removed fitting, a power beyond port will have a machined tube or a cylindrical bore to a port inside the valve body..... An out port will expand to the galley of the valve body under the threaded portion of the valve......The way it should work is oil flows to the control valve to the aux valve through the power beyond port. On the aux valve there are only an in and out port so the out flow of oil goes to the the cooler and filters. This flow is tee'd into the out flow of the control valve......The diagrams both yours and NHs have too many lines. The NH diagram shows all possible configurations with added options. Your setup should be simple. From the hyd pump oil goes to the control valve. Oil goes through the control valve to the aux valve via the power beyond port. The out flow from the aux valve is tee'e into the outflow of the control valve and returns to the cooler and filters and sump....Why power beyond? You could use the out flow from the control valve to supply oil to the aux valve and everything would work ok until you were using both valves at the same time. Say you are raising the boom. Not all oil is going to raise the boom some is being sent through the valve and in or theoretical situation the rest of the oil is going to the aux valve from the out port. Now while raising the boom you activate the aux valve so the pressure from the hyd pump is raised farther, you are causing the oil being exhausted from the boom cylinder to raise to a point where some weird things can happen, such as the boom actually lowering. Basically you are supplying oil to both sides of the boom cylinder. Pressure coming in from the pump and back pressure building in the out port from the requirements of the aux valve. Since in a properly plumbed system there is no substantial back pressure the system works since no pressuize is being built on the out side of the valve.